Of invisible strings and wired connections 

“I believe the Universe ensures we never forget certain people. I think in connection even when it’s not always visible.” – Samira Vivette

This is a ramble of thoughts that may differ from yours, but we’re just bonded human beings seeking connections everywhere we go. So, here it goes. 

In a life where chaos often meets estrangement, the idea of somehow being at the right place at the right time resonates deeply. The concept of an invisible string relates to the ancient belief of the “red thread of fate,” popularized as the “red string theory,” indicating that an invisible thread represents the destiny of meeting someone. This idea goes beyond cultural gaps and generations, imprinting that a once-in-a-lifetime encounter is a part of our destiny. Whether it’s a chance encounter that leads to a lifelong friendship or a serendipitous meeting that sparks romance, these connections often feel like they are written in the stars.

It’s uncanny how we traverse the world every day: from the damning sounds of beeping cars to the silence of social media scrolls. We always try to capture the unseen connections that bind us, forming moments that will imprint in our memories forever.

Reflecting on this, there are days when I evaluate my past relationships—telling them that you  prefer eating pasta dishes rather than eating rice meals, or even laughing at how you are from the same province because you used the expression “garod.” These moments are threads that have pulled us toward unexpected opportunities or relationships. Each experience reminds us of the magic inherent in human connection, and these relationships are intertwined into the very fabric of our existence, as Taylor Swift brilliantly demonstrates in her song.

The idea of the invisible string theory has become relevant in the present where internet connections dominate. This concept hits deep in relationships as we cruise our increasingly digitized lives. Making the world smaller and closer within the tip of our fingers makes life attachments easier—a reassuring reminder that emotional ties can flourish online. These unseen linkages keep us connected in a world where screens frequently replace in-person interactions. They serve as a reminder that despite the distance, relationships of all kinds may thrive, creating a feeling of community and belonging.

We connect to people—feeling we’ve known them all our lives, even though we only met them yesterday. 

I bet my coffee or my Coke Zero, you’ve identified moments where you thought that invisible threads had pulled you towards unexpected relationships-–friendships, familial ties, romantic relationships, or even an ephemeral meeting with strangers. However, I realized that not all those people destined to meet are meant to stay in each others’ lives. 

Oh well, that’s how reality strikes. 

A sip to those we’ve met and lost along the way—may we meet again in the most strange but familiar manner in this damning world.